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Thursday, September 29, 2005
Bad Boy ......or...... Boyfriend?
Women are funny. I know most women better than they know themselves, simply because they're so predictable cuz they're almost all the same, generally. So I find it really interesting how some woman(or girls, whatever) try to be different and...do stuff that most wouldn't usually do. In fact, I find it kind of cute.
But today I gained an insight, an insight that I've long been searching for. Only now do i "get it" about women 100%. Yes, I have obtained enlightenment and I now know all there is to know about what women want in a man. I'm not gonna put it here, or I'll way too much competition, I'm just gonna talk about this particular insight I gained.
I came to an actualisation...That there are only 2 types of relationships. The Bad Boy or the Boyfriend. The wussies/losers will never get in a relationship, and if they do it's so stupid it's not even worth mentioning. Whatever. But here it goes:
BAD BOY:Girls love bad boys, and this type of relationship is mostly...well, not really love. It's more sexually-related, I suppose. For married women, they have their husband, and those that cheat, cheat with men that are BAD BOYS, because their husbands have turned into whining little wussies.
BOYFRIEND/HUSBAND:This is the relationship where the guy does everything that a typical boyfriend/husband does. Carry the girl's bag, opens doors for her, does all the nice sweet sweet, non-wussy stuff. These type of relationships tend to be less sexual but more loving. Although it is possibly to obtain an intermediate, it's somewhat difficult.
So all in all really, when it comes to a relationship, it's definitely how the guy acts that determines what type of relationship it becomes. So it's a choice, do I wanna be the bad boy that gets laid with any girl I want, and have all the girls want me because I seem like such a giant sex God? Or do I want the down-to-earth relationship that's really sweet and loving. After all, as much as sex is a wonderful feeling, is love not?
Which leads to another question: Is it possible to go from the Bad Boy to the Boyfriend? Is it possible that you get a girl into bed with you and THEN you end up feeling like you want to BE with her?
Women are easy to understand, contrary to what the world thinks. It's the relationship, which is controlled by the guy, that is the complicated factor.
Mystery @ 8:33 PM
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Name:Siu Chung
Alias: monkay
Stats: 19/m/~180cm. Black hair. Dark brown eyes.
Birthdate: 110387
School: Singapore Polytechnic: DARE
Email/friendster: standafan@hotmail.com
Enjoys: Guitars, music, long bus rides, the ocean.
Idols: Synyster Gates
Info: About time I updated this shit. I like to have a good time, all the time. I have a dare to do attitude cause hey,
I'm still young and I wanna experience everything while I still can. I wouldnt consider myself a party animal, but whenever I do, I party hard
and I party right. I am pretty happy with my life atm. Good friends. Great buddies. If you aren't already in my life and wish to be
a part of it, well queue up and go through the screening process like everyone else. =(
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Name: Darius Huang
Alias: Stoosh
Stats:18/m/176cm...Brown/Black hair...Brown eyes
Birthdate: 22/05/87
School: Singapore Polytechnic DBA 2A/05
Email/friendster: darius_style@yahoo.com
Enjoys: dancin'/surfin'/rappin'/chillin'
Idols: Eminem/Seth Green/Kelly Slater/Craig David
Numba: 98007738
#1 Belief:Siu chung sleeps too much; he's a pig.
Info:I LOVE TRAVELLING AND THRILL-SEEKING. Travelling and exploring the world is so wonderful because there's just so much to see and do. As for thrill-seeking, I believe that if you don't put your life on the edge, and don't seek novelties that most people dare not do, then your life has gone to waste. Risk it, you only have one life.
yeah i take shit easy, i don't really get phased. like me or not, it don't
really matter, because in this world there will ALWAYS be people that love you, and people that hate you. that's how life is. sad, yeah, pfft.
all my beliefs are in my posts, so read 'em and chillout. word up Gs.
I have many beliefs about women and my life, it's taken me a long time to come up with this, so enjoy it.
1) I don't ever let women use their looks/sexual powers to take advantage of me. There are no special privileges with me. It's who you are. Most guys succumb to women like helpless babies. Fuck that.
2) I am un-selfconscious and don't give a fuck what others think.
3) I put myself and my life first, but anyone else that comes after that is treated exceptionally good.
4) I deserve, have permission, and can hold an exceptional women. Most men don't think they can, it's sad.
5) I don't care what the outcome is, if women don't want me, then it doesn't matter to me.
6) I can deal with any test that women like throwing at me. IN FACT, a lot of the time it's usually cute and funny.
7) I make CAUSE in the world, not effect. People don't have an impact on me, I have an impact on them.
8) I'm confident and comfortable in my own body. Most guys are self-conscious about themselves and are not comfortable with their own selves. I know what I'm doing.
9) I'm a really good communicator with people, most women, ESPECIALLY of what I want.
10) I'm always in control, I never let outside events de-stabalize me. (Mainly emotional.)
11) I'm NEVER NEEDY, I keep my power for myself. I don't 'need' anything.
12) I think sex is fucking great, I am ready to have sexual conversations with anyone, anytime. As long as they're legal. ;p
13) I'm comfortable around women, in fact, sometimes I feel I'm a bit too comfortable that it worries them.
14) I can control myself and I can wait. I can build anticipation. Even if I want something really badly, I can wait.
15) I don't tolerate disrespect of myself/my time/my property. If girls wanna waste my time, that's it, it's over, I don't wanna hear it.
16) I'm a catch. A pretty hard catch, but that's to ensure I get quality.
17) I'm not impressed by outward symbols of money or status. I value people and judge them based on their character; I am fair.
18) I may be totally into a woman and crazy over her, but I don't tell her early on and I sure as shit don't let it slip indirectly. I take my time.
19) I never lose my composure, ever.
20) I am seldom predictable.
